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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Under Pressure

I'm taking a break from blogging about KT's room. Mainly, because we haven't done much since the last update. Okay, Jeff filled in the nail holes with putty, but I hardly think that would of made for riveting, on the edge of your seat blogging. Not that this an adventure/thrill blog, but you know, I've got to weed out some stuff.

So what else has been going on besides Colleen getting bigger (i.e. fatter) and baking the bun in my proverbial oven? Well, I had my first wedding shoot this past weekend. It was interesting to say the least...

Let's just say things didn't pan out as smoothly as I would of liked. The experience taught me a lot. Mainly... that I don't think I'm ready to shoot weddings yet (not that I had envisioned myself going in this path, but one every once in awhile wouldn't hurt). Secondly, it's a lot of pressure to shoot someone's wedding. That doesn't bode well for a person who is a huge ball of stress anyway. And while I'm outgoing in personality, I don't think I possess the suaveness of true photographers enough to mingle with the guests and get shots of groups. I think I really dropped the ball on that aspect.

And probably the BIGGEST lesson I learned was night photography is hard. Very hard. Particularly when the lighting goes from lights to darkness to sunset to dusk. I have a flash, it's true, and I mostly know how to use it. But, I could always go for more lessons because shooting on the spot and trying to get lighting just right is difficult.

So for the course of the next few days, I'm spending my evenings editing and cleaning up photos and hoping I got enough good shots that the bride doesn't strangle me and question why she hired me in the first place.

And boy, did I underestimate how hard this would be at 5 months prego (*wait* holy crap!! I'm five months pregnant!! Where has the time gone?!?) ... My poor feet felt like someone had taken a meat tenderizer to the bottom of them. I figured out that this is why pregnant women waddle. It's not the weight, and it's not the baby. It's the feet hurting so bad you have to rock back and forth quickly from one to the other.

So there, is that enough whining for you tonight? lol. Next one will be more upbeat (I hope).

5 Comments:

Blogger parenting noobs said...

Yeah. Weddings are hard. I've done a few... and wouldn't wish them on anyone. haha. They can be fun. Practice and get help! Seriously. Just having one other person to help get different angles, or just help carry your stuff, is so worth it!

I'm curious to see how they turned out.

Next tip: Only show the good ones to the client. And, the images always look better in some kind of album or format. Always.

October 26, 2009 10:16 PM  
OpenID snowberrylife said...

You're much braver than I am! I keep saying "NO way!" to weddings. Too much pressure for my liking. If I don't get a great shot of a baby, chances are, I can go back the next day and they'll look the same... there's no fall back for weddings.

The good news- as long as you got some pics of the happy couple, they'll love them. You may have gone in looking for some really artistic shots to blow them away, but they just want to have something to help them remember the day.

Also, always play around with black and white and cropping the ones you consider as "bad" shots. A picture of an out-of-focus face, may be a perfect shot of the centerpieces once cropped.

October 30, 2009 12:40 PM  
OpenID snowberrylife said...

You're much braver than I am! I keep saying "NO way!" to weddings. Too much pressure for my liking. If I don't get a great shot of a baby, chances are, I can go back the next day and they'll look the same... there's no fall back for weddings.

The good news- as long as you got some pics of the happy couple, they'll love them. You may have gone in looking for some really artistic shots to blow them away, but they just want to have something to help them remember the day.

Also, always play around with black and white and cropping the ones you consider as "bad" shots. A picture of an out-of-focus face, may be a perfect shot of the centerpieces once cropped.

October 30, 2009 12:40 PM  
Anonymous James @ PartTimePhoto.com said...

Weddings are a beast indeed. After years of suffering through the stress of getting them "just right," I just tripled my price and priced myself out of them. If anyone does hire me, I can afford a second shooter and assistant to make sure every detail is covered. It's the only way to go.

I blog about stuff like this on my site, PartTimePhoto.com. It's always fun to read about other photographers' behind-the-scenes experiences on shoots.

I found your blog through your post about Bandera ISD on Twitter! I'm from Bandera and Brad (their comm. director) is a leader in social media for school districts. I help rural businesses enter the digital age of marketing, and Brad's always a source of great ideas.

November 13, 2009 1:17 AM  
Blogger Megs Stapleton said...

Colleen, you are too hard on yourself! The bride just LOVES the photos and so does the extended family :)

You did a fantastic job - you should really be proud. Sorry it was so hard - but revel in your success!

November 27, 2009 5:52 PM  

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